Giraffes,
onions, holy fools,
and a meaningful life
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At
the Giraffe Heroes Project, spiritually speaking, we see ourselves
like an onion. At the outer layers, our message is very secular:
stick your neck out for the common good and youll help
solve the problem youre concerned about, and you'll feel
better about yourself in the process.
But
as you peel the Giraffe onion, we get more interesting.
At the core is the inspiration of Ann Medlock, who founded the
Giraffe Heroes Project just about the time shed met Joseph
Campbell, the late expert and author on mythology.Ann got intrigued
with Campbells study of heroes, especially Parsifal and
Myth of Holy Grail. Parsifal, as some of you know, was a gawky
young mana kid, reallyliving with his mother in a
land blighted by a terrible curse on its king. Because of this
curse, there was pestilence and hunger and the people were despondent.
The curse on the king could be lifted only if he drank from the
Holy Grailthe chalice used by Christ at the Last Supper.
But nobody could find the Grail. Every great knight in the land
had tried and failed. Parsifal weeps with grief at the suffering
he sees. Driven by his compassion, he resolves to find the Grail
by himself. His mother tells him to stay home.
How
can you, an ignorant boy, she said to him, hope to
succeed where great knights have failed. Parsifal ignores
his mothers wishes and sets out on his quest, going through
great dangers and obstacles until he does find the Grail and
the curse on the land is lifted. Parsifal
is only one example of The Holy Foolthe archetypal
hero. In many incarnations, over millennia, the Holy Fool
takes risks for the common good, ignoring the odds and breaking
the rules if he has to. In Campbells words: The
hero goes into the dark forest alone, at a place where there
is no path. The Holy Fool is often shown as a blithe
spirit, walking off a cliff, dogs yapping at his heels. The
court jester is a cultural descendent of the Holy Fool as
is, for that matter, the joker in a modern deck of cards.
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Ann
saw from Joseph Campbell that her search for Giraffes was a search
for Holy Fools, and that she was walking on a path that was thousands
of years old. When she told Campbell that shortly before he died,
he cried.
That
was almost 20 years ago. Ann, and the Giraffe Heroes Project,
have been finding GiraffesHoly Foolsand learning
from them, ever since.
We
often ask them why they do what they do, despite the obstacles,
despite the risks. Their most common response is quizzical. The
problem was right in front of me, they might say. Nobody
else was acting. What else was I supposed to do? A few
Giraffes use spiritual language to make this pointas in I
was guided to do itbut most dont. But either
way its clear that their decision to act, just as Parsifals,
goes beyond rational analysis, straight to their own deepest
values and priorities. Their actions are meaningful to them in
the most profound and personal sense of that word. And isnt
that meaning, and the search for it, at the core of a spiritual
life?So the connection between service and spirit between
service and the search for meaning (especially service that can
be hard or risky) has been clear to us at the Giraffe Heroes
Project for a long time.Theres a direct connection between
the degree of meaning a challenge has for anyone and her ability
and willingness to take risks and face obstacles in tackling
it. Sticking your neck out for the common good and doing what
you know is right despite the costsis tough. There's no
way youor your kidsare going to generate the courage
and commitment they need to succeed unless theyre very
clear why theyre doing what theyre doing. Unless
it has personal meaning.
Think
about it. If youre walking a path you know is meaningful
to you, and there are risks and obstacles along that path, you
can see them in the context of that larger meaning. The risk
and obstacles dont go away, but you become more willing
and able to take them on because you see that the bigger picture
is worth the effort and risk. |
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